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March 11

Sunshine...

MMMMMMM.... it feels so very wonderful to see and feel the warm sun.   Funny how it warms you from the inside out.. changing even your thought process.. and noticeably lifting your mood.. or adding energy to your thoughts and plans for the day =-) 
March 06

Some days...

Some days are up...and some are down....but some are just bla.... today should have been good.. it was peaceful and productive.. but my bla attitude just made it bla to me =-P
March 04

Some thoughts...

It occured to me today that its a beautiful sunny day... the birds are chirping..the snow is melting.. the chipmunks and squirrels are teasing my poor dog endlessly.. the life cycle is happening in full swing.  How often do we look outside of our own little box?  At the same time this is happening here.. half way across the globe men and women whom I dont even know are there fighting for our freedom and for a freedom of another nation.  It is all parallel.. and we forget.. we forget to write, or pray, or tell our kids that they are there...
March 03

Nathaniels....Hootin Hikers Poem

High  hot  hootin' 
hikers  hiked  the 
highest,hottest,
hootin'est  mountain
on  the hottest  day of  the  month
March 02

Head.. heart???

Funny how dating doesnt seem so fun now.... For a mom its more like a job interview.   Through all the experience of life you transition from looking for that exciting love, with all the gushy feelings, to a place where you learned the first time around the things you really find important.. and who you really are; so that you can temper those gushy feelings with logic.  I ve learned it takes more than gushy love.. or lust really, to make a lasting relationship.  My only regret so far in life is figuring it out at the expense of four precious souls who look to me for everything.... 
March 01

Jessica's Just Because poem

Just because I'm scared,
Doesn't mean you mock me.
Just because its raining,
Doesn't mean you kick me.
Just because I'm at my friends house,
Doesn't mean you can come too.
Just because I'm not the coolest kid in school,
Doesn't mean you can't be my friend too.
Just because my dad isn't home,
Doesn't mean your dad can come over.
Just because I'm playing video games,
Doesn't mean you can too!
 
by,
Jessica Bonkowski  8yrs old
January 26

More of Nothing....

Why in the world do we have soooo much paper everywhere??  Seriously.. every little thing we do takes at least one or two sheets to fill out or file, or send.. and on and on..  Who ever thought that was a good idea??? Getting a bill for less than a dollar in the mail is soo absurd!!  The cost to print and send it defeats the purpose and benefit of trying to collect the debt owed. I prefer to look at big beautiful trees then all this needless paper work everywhere
January 23

moving......

I wonder... when upacking.. how much time is spent just moving things from one area or room to the next to make one room seem finished.... just moving junk from place to place.....seems never ending 
January 14

Lifes Doodles....

Well life has a strange way of making you grow!!  I have gone from a miserable marriage with an out of control household....feeling completly hopeless.. to a place of change, reflection and thankfulness. I feel much stronger now to face the challenges that come my way...with an ocassional down day. I've learned that life isnt really like a box of chocolates.. at least not for me Forrest.  I love chocolate and if you read the lable you wont be surprised by whats inside.  Life has no label and is full of surproses...your success matters only on how you view the surprise.  Your view will affect your actions.. and hence affect the outcome.  So on a cheesy note from one of my favorite movies (Shawshank Redemption) "get busy livin' or get busy diein" .  I am learning to face each challenge wit h a positive attitude, not to run with the first negative that comes to mind!! 
 
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Andrea Bonkowski

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I am a divorced mother of 4 always looking to meet new people and make some lasting relationships. I have blue eyes and dishwater blonde hair... and bla, bla, bla I have many favorite quotes.. One I like is "Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds"